Loving and Forgiving
Growing up and living with parents, stepparents, adoptive parents or those close by can create not only the personality but also the thinking mind of an individual. If you're blessed with having loving people around you, the love of God will make you respond positively with hugging, kissing, and godly love. But even if the people around you are controlling, dominating, and abusive, your faith in God will still help you respond positively even to the negative people around you. Why and how ? God says you should not only honor your father and mother ( Exodu s 20: 12) but also obey them. Your obedience may not immediately lead to their love and approval, but it will lead to the help of the Holy Spirit in changing them ultimately. Remember, God is a father to the fatherless ( Psalm 68:5). So, surrender your will to God, and let the Holy Spirit work in your heart throughout your life through God's Word. Forgiving your loved ones for their abuses and wrongdoings is e...